1. The v!rgi!n stereotype
This stereotype says that v!rgi!n$ are naive, ignorant about s*'x, dull, prude, have to be handled carefully, care-less about a man’s s*'xual needs, too emotional, extra careful, play too hard to get etc.
Dating a v!rgi!n to many guys is a burden, someone you would have to encourage to k!ss, someone you would have to beg to reach second base.
Remember guys are physically ar0'used. V!rgi!n$ come across as choosy, love conscious and will rebuff a guy’s s3'xual advances. Most guys would ask, “why the stress?”
2. The icing on the cake
Most times a guy likes a girl and goes after her ‘aggressively’. During the ‘toasting’ stage, he is all about l0ve and isn’t deterred when the girl tells him of her ‘v!rgi!n’ status. He is l0ve-struck obviously.
He tells her “I want you for who you are not for the s*'x”. She’s like “awwwww, that’s so sweet of you Kelvin”. They start dating. Did he mean it? Obviously. Will he mean it in a few months time? Hell no.
When his s*xu@l genes begin to take effect, his eyes begin to wonder and his hands begin to feel some soft God made portions of her b0'dy, no one will tell Kelvin that although this cake is sweet, icing will make it perfect.
He begins to ask her for icing, she reminds him of his earlier “I don’t care if you are v!rgi!n” stand. The s*'xu@l friction begins to take its toll. Three things would happen; she gives in and loses the v!rgi!n!ty to him, she doesn’t give in and he cheats on her to get the icing from somewhere else or they break up. Sad ending right?
Guys think this far and ask themselves, “why the stress?”.
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